Sukhomlinsky's pedagogical trilogy - "I give my heart to children", "The birth of a citizen", "Letters to my son". Childhood, adolescence, youth, respectively.
“Dear readers, colleagues - teachers, educators, school directors! This work is the result of many years of work at the school - the result of thoughts, worries, anxieties, excitement. Thirty-three years of non-stop work in a rural school was a great, incomparable happiness for me. I dedicated my life to children and, after much deliberation, called my work "I give my heart to children", believing that I have the right to do so. I would like to tell the teachers - both those who work at the school now and those who will come to school after us - about a great period of their lives - a period that is equal to a decade. From the day when a small child, as we teachers often call him, comes to school, to that solemn moment when a young man or girl, receiving a certificate for secondary school from the hands of the director, embarks on the path of an independent working life. This period is the period of the formation of a person, for the teacher it is a huge part of his life. What was the most important thing in my life? I answer without hesitation: love for children. Perhaps you, dear reader, will not agree with something in my work, perhaps something in it will seem strange, surprising to you, I ask you in advance: do not consider this book as a universal guide for teaching children, adolescents, youths, girls. To put it in the language of pedagogical terminology, this work is devoted to out-of-class educational work (or: educational work in the narrow sense of this concept). I did not set myself the task of covering the lesson, all the didactic details of the process of studying the foundations of science. Speaking in the language of subtle human relations, this work is dedicated to the heart of the teacher. I tried to talk about how to introduce a small person into the world of knowledge of the surrounding reality, how to help him learn, facilitate his mental work, how to awaken and affirm noble feelings and experiences in his soul, how to cultivate human dignity, faith in a good beginning in a person, boundless love for their native Soviet land, how to plant the first seeds of loyalty to lofty communist ideals in the subtle mind and sensitive heart of a child. The book you have just picked up is devoted to educational work with elementary grades. In other words, it is dedicated to the world of childhood. And childhood, children's world is a special world. Children live by their ideas of good and evil, honor and dishonor, human dignity; they have their own criteria of beauty, they even have their own measurement of time: in the years of childhood, a day seems like a year, and a year seems like an eternity. Having access to the fabulous palace whose name is Childhood, I have always found it necessary to become somewhat of a child. Only under this condition, the children will not look at you as a person who accidentally penetrated the gates of their fairy-tale world, as a watchman guarding this world, a watchman who is indifferent to what is happening inside this world. I would like to make one more reservation in connection with the content of the book and the nature of the experience. Primary school is primarily the creative work of one teacher. Therefore, I deliberately avoided showing the work of the teaching staff and parents. If all this were shown in a book, it would grow to enormous size. In a book about childhood, it was impossible not to talk about the families from which the children came, about the parents. In some families, especially after World War II, there was a gloomy, sometimes depressing situation, some parents could not become an example for children. I couldn't keep silent about it. If I had not given a complete, truthful description of the family situation, the direction of the entire system of educational work would not have been clear.
On this page you can find material to prepare for writing a summary of the Russian language. The material from the collection of I.P. Tsybulko "GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options. 36 options." You can listen to the texts of the presentations in the tab "Audio".
In a society where the idea of individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten
about such things as mutual assistance and mutual assistance. And the human
society was formed and continues to exist thanks to
common cause and help the weak, thanks to the fact that each of us
complement each other.
And how can we now support the completely opposite
point of view that there are no other interests than ours
own? And it's not even that it sounds selfish. Case
in the fact that it is in this issue that intertwines personal and public
interests. You see how much deeper it is than it seems: after all
individualism destroys society, and therefore weakens us. Only
And what is more in our common interests: mutual assistance
or primitive selfishness? There can be no two opinions here: we must
help each other if we want to live together well and from no one
don't depend. And helping people in difficult times, no need to wait
thanks. You just need to help, not looking for benefits for yourself. Then you too
will definitely help in return.
(According to the Internet)
http://luchshiydrug.ru/vzaimovyruchka/
169 words
How many artists, composers, poets have created wonderful works about the mother! "Take care of mothers!" - the famous poet Rasul Gamzatov proclaimed in his poem. Unfortunately, we realize too late that we forgot to say a lot of good and kind words to our mothers. To prevent this from happening, you need to give them joy every day and hour. After all, grateful children are the best gift for them.
Text for presentation to options 1 - 4.
A real purpose allows a person to live life with dignity and receive joy. If a person lives to bring good to people, to alleviate their suffering in case of illness, to give people joy, then he sets himself a goal worthy of a person. If a person sets himself the task of acquiring all elementary material goods: a car, a summer house, a furniture set, he makes a fatal mistake.
Setting a career or acquisition as a goal, a person experiences in total much more grief than joy, and risks losing everything. Not promoted - disappointment. I did not have time to buy a stamp for my collection - disappointment. Someone has better furniture or a better car than you - again disappointment, and what else! And what can a person who rejoices in every good deed have to lose? It is only important that the good that a person does be his inner need, come from a smart heart, and not just from the head.
Therefore, the main life task must necessarily be a task wider than just a personal one, it should not be closed only on one's own successes and failures. It should be dictated by kindness to people, love for the family, for your city, for your people, country, for the whole universe.
(According to D.S. Likhachev) 172 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 5 - 8.
We often say to each other: I wish you all the best. This is not just an expression of politeness. In these words we express our human nature. One must have great fortitude in order to be able to wish good to others. The ability to feel, the ability to see the people around you in a kind way is not only an indicator of culture, but also the result of a huge inner work of the spirit.
Turning to each other with a request, we say: please. Request is an impulse of the soul. To refuse help to a person means to lose one's own human dignity. Indifference to those in need of help is a spiritual deformity. To protect yourself from indifference, you must develop in your soul complicity, sympathy, compassion and at the same time the ability to distinguish harmless human weaknesses from vices that cripple the soul.
To increase the goodness in the world around us is the greatest goal of life. Good is made up of many things, and every time life sets a task for a person that must be able to solve. Love and friendship, growing and spreading to many things, gain new strength, become higher and higher, and the person, their center, is wiser.
(According to D.S. Likhachev) 157 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 9 - 12.
I remembered hundreds of boys' answers to the question: what kind of person do you want to become? - Strong, brave, courageous, smart, resourceful, fearless ... And no one said: kind. Why is kindness not put on a par with such virtues as courage and bravery? But without kindness - genuine warmth of the heart - the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.
Good feelings, emotional culture are the focus of humanity. Today, when there is already enough evil in the world, we should be more tolerant, attentive and kind towards each other, towards the surrounding living world and do the most courageous deeds in the name of goodness. Following the path of goodness is the most acceptable and the only path for a person. He is tested, he is faithful, he is useful - both to a person alone and to the whole society as a whole.
Learning to feel and sympathize is the most difficult thing in education. If good feelings are not brought up in childhood, you will never bring them up, because they are assimilated simultaneously with the knowledge of the first and most important truths, the main of which is the value of life: someone else's, one's own, the life of the animal world and plants. In childhood, a person must go through an emotional school - a school of nurturing good feelings. Humanity, kindness, benevolence are born in worries, worries, joys and sorrows.
(According to V.A. Sukhomlinsky) 183 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 13 - 16.
A person has committed a misdemeanor or even a crime. Or simply did not justify the hopes that were placed on him. Looking for explanations. He is also looking for them. Often not so much an explanation as an excuse. Surrounding and he himself blame the family, school, team, circumstances.
We should not forget what role a person himself plays in his own destiny, forget about an important, and perhaps the most important, part of education - self-education. Indeed, of all the circumstances that form a person, the most important is a conscious attitude to one's own life, to one's own thoughts and plans, and above all, to one's own actions.
Self-education begins with self-esteem. If a person begins to find insurmountable obstacles in every case, loses self-confidence, then he develops low self-esteem. No less dangerous is overestimated self-esteem, when a person considers himself always and in everything right and does not listen to the opinions of others. Only the ability to adequately assess your capabilities allows you to correctly formulate life goals and achieve them.
(According to S.L. Lvov) 140 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 17 - 20.
Time changes people. But, besides time, there is another category that affects you, maybe even stronger than time. This is a way of life, an attitude towards it, compassion for others. There is an argument that compassion is brought up by one's own misfortune. I don't like this idea. I believe that compassion is a special talent, and without it it is difficult to remain human.
A person of serene fate knows, of course, about troubles, that there are unfortunate people, and among them children. Yes, misfortune and misfortune are inevitable. But life is arranged in such a way that misfortune seems to the happy most often far away, sometimes even unreal. If everything is fine with you, trouble seems to be scattered around the world with small grains of sand, misfortune seems atypical, and happiness seems typical. Happiness will not be happiness if every moment it begins to think about trouble and grief.
Own troubles leave scars in the soul and teach a person important truths. But if a person remembers only such lessons, he has an underestimated sensitivity. It's easy to cry in your own pain. It's harder to cry from someone else's pain. A famous thinker of the past said: "Prosperity reveals our vices, and disasters our virtues."
(According to A.A. Likhanov) 165 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 21 - 24.
Rudeness in language, as well as rudeness in manners, slovenliness in clothes, is a very common phenomenon, and it testifies to the insecurity of a person, to his weakness, and not at all to strength. I'm not talking about the fact that this is a sign of bad manners, and sometimes cruelty.
A truly strong and balanced person will not speak loudly and swear unnecessarily. After all, it has long been known that each of our actions, each of our words reflects on those around us and is hostile to the most precious thing in the world - human life. And a strong person, understanding all this, is just strong in his nobility and generosity.
It takes a long time to learn good, calm, intelligent speech - by listening, memorizing, reading. But although it is difficult, it is necessary, it is really necessary! Our speech is the most important part not only of our behavior, but also of our personality, our soul, mind, our ability not to succumb to the influences of the environment, if it is “dragging”.
(According to D.S. Likhachev) 136 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 25 - 28.
The beauty of the surrounding world: a flower and the flight of a swallow, a foggy lake and a star, a rising sun and a honeycomb, a dense tree and a woman's face - all the beauty of the surrounding world gradually accumulated in the human soul, then the return inevitably began. The image of a flower or a deer appeared on the handle of a battle axe. The image of the sun or a bird adorned a birch bark bucket or a primitive clay plate. After all, folk art still has a pronounced applied character. Any decorated product is, first of all, a product, whether it be a salt shaker, an arc, a spoon, a rattle, a sled, a towel, a baby's cradle...
Then the art took off. The drawing on the rock has no applied character. It's just a joyful or sorrowful cry of the soul. From a worthless drawing on a rock to a painting by Rembrandt, an opera by Wagner, a sculpture by Rodin, a novel by Dostoyevsky, a poem by Blok, a pirouette by Galina Ulanova...
(According to V.A. Soloukhin) 191 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 29 - 32.
Like any qualified, purposeful, systematic and systematic work, a teacher is a profession, a specialty. But this is a special profession, incomparable with any other business. It has a number of special properties and qualities.
The object of the teacher's work is the spiritual life of a developing person - the mind, feelings, will, conviction, self-consciousness. The most important tools of the teacher's influence on the spiritual world of the student are the word, the beauty of the surrounding world and art, the creation of circumstances in which feelings are most clearly expressed - the entire emotional spectrum of human relations. Therefore, the teaching profession is human science, constant, never-ending penetration into the complex spiritual world of man.
The final result of pedagogical work can be seen not immediately, not today, not tomorrow, but after a very long time. What the teacher did, said, managed to instill in the child, sometimes affects in five, ten years. Health, mind, character, will, patriotism, human intellect depend on the teacher, on his skill, skill, art, wisdom. In other words, the present and the future of the student depend. Therefore, it is very important to believe in the possibility of successful upbringing of each child. Unlimited faith in a person, in his future - this is what should live in the soul of a person who has decided to devote his life to the noble work of a teacher.
(According to V. A. Sukhomlinsky) 171 words
Texts for presentations from the standard examination variants of the collection of I.P. Tsybulko (GIA 2013. Russian language: standard exam options: 36 options).
Text for presentation to options 33 - 36.
When I was about ten years old, someone's caring hand put a volume of Animal Heroes on me. I consider it my "alarm clock". From other people I know that for them the “alarm clock” of the feeling of nature was a month spent in the summer in the countryside, a walk in the forest with a man who “opened his eyes to everything”, the first trip with a backpack, spending the night in the forest ...
There is no need to enumerate everything that can awaken in human childhood an interest and a reverent attitude towards the great mystery of life. Growing up, a person should comprehend with his mind how complex everything in the living world is intertwined, interconnected, how this world is strong and at the same time vulnerable, how everything in our life depends on the wealth of the earth, on the health of wildlife. This school must be.
And yet at the beginning of everything is love. Awakened in time, she makes the knowledge of the world interesting and exciting. With it, a person also acquires a certain point of support, an important starting point for all the values of life. Love for everything that turns green, breathes, makes sounds, sparkles with colors, and there is love that brings a person closer to happiness.
(According to V.M. Peskov) 156 words
To options 1-4.
Paragraph No. Microtopic
To options 5-8.
Information about the text for a concise presentation.
Paragraph No. Microtopic
To protect yourself from it, you must develop sympathy and complicity in your soul.
To options 9-12.
Information about the text for a concise presentation.
I give my heart to children
Fourth edition
Publishing house "Radyanska school"
Kiev
The author of the book, V. A. Sukhomlinsky (1918-1970) - an outstanding Soviet teacher, Hero of Socialist Labor, corresponding member of the USSR Academy of Sciences, Honored Teacher of the Ukrainian SSR - throughout his pedagogical career dealt with the problems of education and development of schoolchildren.
“I give my heart to children” is one of the few books in modern pedagogical literature that has won the recognition of teachers and parents.
In his book, the author not only poses and solves scientific and theoretical problems, but also acquaints the reader with how for several years, from the day when the little man first crossed the school threshold, until the end of elementary school, he introduced his pupils into the world knowledge of the surrounding reality, helped to master knowledge, awakened mental abilities and affirmed noble feelings, brought up civic dignity, faith in a good beginning in a person, boundless devotion to the Communist Party and the Socialist Motherland, a sense of friendship between peoples, internationalism.
Publishing house "Radyanska school", 1973.
Foreword
"School of Joy"
Head teacher
First Year - Learning Children
Parents of my students
school under blue
Nature is the source of health
Every child is an artist
Caring for the living and the beautiful
Our travels in the world of work
We listen to the music of nature
Winter joys and worries
The first feast of the lark
You live among people, my son
Our team is a friendly family
We live in the Garden of Health
Thoughts on the eve of the first school year
Childhood years
What is an elementary school?
Health, health and more health
Teaching is a particle of spiritual life
Three hundred pages of the "Book of Nature"
From the world of things to society. Where does what come from?
A thousand tasks from a living problem book
Our "journeys" around the globe
What is imperialism?
Give your child the joy of intellectual labor, the joy of success in learning
Fairy tale room
Continuation of the fairy tale - our "Island of Wonders"
The song reveals the beauty of the world to the child
A book in the spiritual life of a child
native word
Our beauty corner
At the origins of the life ideal
Thinking about the Communist Party
You can't live a day without worrying about a person
Labor is inspired by noble feelings
You are the future masters of your Motherland, young Leninists
Children join the organization of young Leninists
Fight and win - like Lenin
Link "Bold and fearless"
We say goodbye to summer
Dear readers, colleagues - teachers, educators, school principals!
This work is the result of many years of work at the school - the result of thoughts, worries, anxieties, worries.
Thirty-three years of non-stop work in a rural school was a great, incomparable happiness for me. I dedicated my life to children, and after much deliberation, I called my work “I give my heart to children”, believing that I have the right to do so. I would like to tell teachers - both those who work at the school now and those who will come to school after us - about a great period of their lives - a period that is equal to a decade. From the day when a small child, as we teachers often call him, comes to school, to that solemn moment when a young man or girl, receiving a certificate for secondary school from the hands of the director, embarks on the path of an independent working life. This period is the period of the formation of a person, for the teacher it is a huge part of his life. What was the most important thing in my life? I answer without hesitation: love for children.
Perhaps you, dear reader, will not agree with something in my work, perhaps something in it will seem strange, surprising to you, I ask you in advance: do not consider this book as a universal guide for teaching children, adolescents, youths, girls. To put it in the language of pedagogical terminology, this work is devoted to extracurricular educational work (or educational work in the narrow sense of this concept). I did not set myself the task of covering the lesson, all the didactic details of the process of studying the foundations of science. Speaking in the language of subtle human relations, this work is dedicated to the heart of the teacher. I tried to talk about how to introduce a small person into the world of knowledge of the surrounding reality, how to help him learn, to facilitate his mental work, how to awaken and affirm noble feelings and experiences in his Soul, how to cultivate human dignity, faith in a good beginning in a person, boundless love for their native Soviet land, how to plant the first seeds of loyalty to lofty communist ideals into the delicate mind and sensitive heart of a child.
The book you have just picked up is devoted to educational work with elementary grades. In other words, it is dedicated to the world of childhood. And childhood, children's world is a special world. Children live by their ideas of good and evil, honor and dishonor, human dignity; they have their own criteria of beauty, they even have their own measurement of time: in the years of childhood, a day seems like a year, and a year seems like an eternity. Having access to the fabulous palace whose name is Childhood, I have always found it necessary to become somewhat of a child. Only under this condition, the children will not look at you as a person who accidentally penetrated the gates of their fairy-tale world, as a watchman guarding this world, a watchman who is indifferent to what is happening inside this world.
I would like to make one more reservation in connection with the content of the book and the nature of the experience. Primary school is, first of all, the creative work of one teacher. Therefore, I deliberately avoided showing the work of the teaching staff and parents. If all this were shown in a book, it would grow to enormous size.
In a book about childhood, it was impossible not to talk about the families from which the children came, about the parents. In some families, especially after World War II, there was a gloomy sometimes depressing situation, some parents could not become an example for children. I couldn't keep silent about it. If I had not given a complete, truthful description of the family situation, the direction of the entire system of educational work would not have been clear. I firmly believe in the mighty power of education - in what N. K. Krupskaya, A. S. Makarenko and other outstanding teachers believed.
On the FIPI website in the section Demos, Specs, Codifiers draft documents have been published for public and professional discussion that determine the content of the control measuring materials for the main state exam of 2020 in the Russian language, mathematics, literature and other subjects.
In the KIMs of 2020 in the Russian language, the number of tasks has been changed from 15 to 9, and the primary score for completing work has also been changed from 39 to 33.
The specificity of the text for presentation has changed (texts of various genres can be offered (travel notes, notes, essay, review, diary, etc.). There are 7 tasks in the test part.
Sample Concise Statement
No matter how interesting the life of a child is, if he does not read precious books, he is deprived. This adults can read the book today or in a year. In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day is a discovery. Early impressions can affect a lifetime.
Childhood impressions are the brightest, they are the foundation of the future spiritual life. Seeds sown in childhood. Not everyone will germinate and flourish. But the biography of the soul is the gradual germination of seeds sown in childhood.
The next life is difficult. It consists of millions of actions that are determined by character traits and form this character. But every quality of the soul of an adult, as well as his actions, were sown in childhood.
Detailed text
(1) No matter how interesting the home and school life of a child 1 is, if he does not read precious books 2 - he is deprived 3. (2) Such losses are irreparable. (3) It is adults who can read the book today or in a year - the difference is small. (4) In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day is a discovery. (5) And the sharpness of perception in the days of childhood is as follows 1, what early impressions can influence the whole life later 2 .
(6) Childhood impressions are the most vivid and lasting impressions. (7) This is the foundation of the future spiritual life, the golden fund. (8) Seeds are sown in childhood. (9) Not everyone will sprout, not everyone will bloom. (10) But the biography of the human soul is the gradual germination of seeds sown in childhood.
(11) The subsequent life is complex and diverse. (12) It consists of millions of actions, determined by many character traits and, in turn, forming this character. (13) But if you trace and find the connection of phenomena, it becomes obvious that every trait of an adult person’s character, every quality of his soul and, perhaps, even every act of his were sown in childhood, have since then had their germ, their seed.
I want to learn
1. write a summary
We have collected for you all the texts of the statements from the open bank of FIPI tasks. There are only 34 of them. One of these texts will definitely come across to you at the OGE! Get ready for this task with the help of our website.
Enjoy!
No matter how interesting the home and school life of a child is, if he does not read precious books, he is deprived. Such losses are irreparable. It is adults who can read the book today or in a year - the difference is small. In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day is a discovery. And the sharpness of perception in the days of childhood is such that early impressions can then influence the whole life. Childhood impressions are the most vivid and lasting impressions. This is the foundation of the future spiritual life, the golden fund.
Seeds sown in childhood. Not everyone will germinate, not everyone will bloom. But the biography of the human soul is the gradual germination of seeds sown in childhood.
The next life is complex and varied. It consists of millions of actions that are determined by many character traits and, in turn, form this character. But if we trace and find the connection between phenomena, it becomes obvious that every feature of the character of an adult person, every quality of his soul and, perhaps, even every action of his were sown in childhood, have since then had their germ, their seed.
Finished Concise Statement
If a child has not read precious books, he is deprived, because in childhood time counts differently, every day is a discovery. Early childhood impressions can influence a lifetime. They are the foundation of the future spiritual life.
Not all seeds sown in childhood will germinate and flourish, but the biography of the soul is the germination of these seeds.
The subsequent life consists of actions that are determined by the character and shape it. Every quality of the soul of an adult and, perhaps, every action of an adult was sown in childhood.
Self-doubt is an ancient problem, but it attracted the attention of physicians, teachers and psychologists relatively recently - in the middle of the 20th century. It was then that it became clear: ever-increasing self-doubt can cause a lot of trouble - up to serious illnesses, not to mention everyday problems.
What about psychological problems? After all, self-doubt can serve as the basis for constant dependence on the opinions of others. Imagine how uncomfortable the addict feels: other people's assessments seem to him much more important and significant than his own; he sees his every act primarily through the eyes of others. And most importantly, he wants approval from everyone, from loved ones to passengers on the tram. Such a person becomes indecisive and cannot correctly assess life situations.
How to overcome self-doubt? Some scientists are looking for an answer to this question, based on physiological processes, others rely on psychology. One thing is clear: self-doubt can be overcome only if a person is able to correctly set goals, correlate them with external circumstances and positively assess their results.
Finished Concise Statement
The ancient problem of self-doubt attracted the attention of specialists only in the middle of the 20th century. Then it became clear that it could cause trouble, everyday problems and even serious illnesses.
Self-doubt can become the soil of dependence on someone else's opinion. Other people's assessments seem to the addict more important than their own; he sees his every act through the eyes of others and wants approval from everyone. Such a person cannot correctly assess situations.
How to overcome self-doubt? To do this, a person needs to be able to set goals correctly, correlate them with external circumstances and positively evaluate their results.
The word "mom" is a special word. It is born together with us, accompanies us in the years of growing up and maturity. It is babbled by a child in the cradle. A young man and a deep old man pronounces with love. Every language has this word. And in all languages it sounds gentle and affectionate.
Mother's place in our life is special, exceptional. We always bring our joy and pain to her and find understanding. Maternal love inspires, gives strength, inspires to a feat. In difficult life circumstances, we always remember our mother. And we need only her at this moment. A man calls his mother and believes that she, wherever she is, hears him, sympathizes and hurries to help. The word "mother" becomes equivalent to the word "life".
How many artists, composers, poets have created wonderful works about my mother! "Take care of mothers!" - the famous poet Rasul Gamzatov proclaimed in his poem. Unfortunately, we realize too late that we forgot to say many good and kind words to our mother. To prevent this from happening, you need to give them joy every day and hour. After all, grateful children are the best gift for them.
Finished Concise Statement
The word "mother" is a special word that is born with us and accompanies us all our lives. It is uttered with love by both the young man and the elder. It is in the language of any nation, and in all languages it sounds kind.
Mother's place in our life is special. We bring her joy and pain and find understanding. Mother's love inspires and inspires. In difficult circumstances of life, a person calls his mother and believes that she is compassionate and rushes to help.
How many people of art have created works about my mother! Rasul Gamzatov bequeathed in his poem to take care of mothers. So that it does not become too late to say good and kind words to mothers, you need to give them joy all the time. Grateful children are the best gift for them.
Each of us once had favorite toys. Perhaps every person has a bright and tender memory associated with them, which he carefully keeps in his heart. Favorite toy is the most vivid memory from the childhood of every person.
In the age of computer technology, real toys no longer attract the same attention as virtual ones. But despite all the novelties that appear, such as telephones and computer equipment, the toy still remains unique and indispensable in its kind, because nothing teaches and develops a child like a toy with which he can communicate, play and even acquire vitality. experience.
A toy is the key to the mind of a little person. In order to develop and strengthen positive qualities in him, to make him mentally healthy, to instill love for others, to form a correct understanding of good and evil, it is necessary to carefully choose a toy, remembering that it will bring to his world not only its own image, but also behavior, attributes, as well as the value system and worldview. It is impossible to raise a full-fledged person with the help of toys of a negative orientation.
Finished Concise Statement
Each person has a memory associated with his favorite toy, because it is the most vivid memory from the childhood of any person.
In the age of computer technology, virtual toys receive more attention than real ones. But despite the latest technology, the toy remains indispensable, because it teaches and develops the child.
A toy is the key to the consciousness of a small person, so you need to carefully choose a toy that will bring your image, behavior, value system and worldview into his world. You can not raise a full-fledged person with the help of negative toys.
Times are changing, new generations are coming, in which, it would seem, everything is not the same as the previous ones: tastes, interests, life goals. But intractable personal questions, meanwhile, somehow remain unchanged. Why? Perhaps because the depths of human psychology are stubborn material, changing slowly. Therefore, today's teenagers, like their parents at one time, are worried about the same thing: how to attract the attention of someone you like? How to distinguish infatuation from true love? And, of course, the main thing: what is love?
A youthful dream of love is, no matter what they say, first of all, a dream of understanding. After all, a teenager definitely needs to realize himself in communication with peers: to show his ability to sympathize, empathize. Yes, and just show their qualities and abilities in front of those who are friendly towards him, who are ready to understand. But what about friendship? - you ask. I think it's all about friendships. Of course, in friendly communication, a person’s personality is also revealed. But how much, to what extent? Is the degree of trust in a friend as great as in a loved one?
Love is the unconditional and boundless trust of two to each other. Trust, which reveals in everyone all the best that a person is only capable of. True love certainly includes friendships, but is not limited to them. It is always greater than friendship, because only in love do we recognize the other person's full right to everything that makes up our world.
Finished Concise Statement
Times change, but intractable personal issues remain the same. The depths of human psychology change slowly, so today's teenagers, like their parents in their youth, are concerned about the same questions, the main one of which is what is love?
A youthful dream of love is a dream of understanding, because a teenager needs to show his ability to empathize and show his qualities. Such behavior is also characteristic of friendly communication, where the personality of a person is also revealed. But is the degree of trust in a friend as great as in a loved one?
Love is the unconditional and boundless trust of two to each other, revealing the best qualities of a person. True love, although it includes friendship, is always greater than it, because only in love do we recognize the full right of another to our world.
Finished Concise Statement
In a society where the idea of individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten about such things as mutual assistance and mutual assistance. Human society has just been formed and continues to exist, thanks to a common cause and help to the weak, thanks to the fact that each of us complements each other. And how can we now support the completely opposite point of view, which says that there are no other interests than our own? And the point here is not even that it sounds selfish, the point is that it is in this issue that personal and public interests are intertwined.
Do you see how much deeper it is than it seems? After all, individualism destroys society, and therefore weakens each of us. And only mutual support can preserve and strengthen society.
And what is more in line with our common interests: mutual benefit or primitive selfishness? There can be no two opinions here. We must help each other if we want to live well together and not depend on anyone. And when helping people in difficult times, you don’t have to wait for gratitude, you just need to help, not looking for benefits for yourself, and then they will help you in return, of course.
Finished Concise Statement
In a society where the idea of individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten about mutual assistance. How can we support the view that there are no interests other than our own? It is in this matter that personal and public interests are intertwined.
Individualism destroys society, only mutual support will save it.
What is more in our interests: mutual assistance or primitive selfishness? There cannot be two opinions. We must help each other if we want to live well. You need to help your neighbor in difficult times, and not wait for gratitude. It is necessary to do good disinterestedly, and then they will definitely help you in return.
When I was about ten years old, someone's caring hand put a volume of Animal Heroes on me. I consider it my "alarm clock". From other people I know that for them the “alarm clock” of the feeling of nature was a month spent in the summer in the countryside, a walk in the forest with a man who “opened his eyes to everything”, the first trip with a backpack, spending the night in the forest ...
There is no need to enumerate everything that can awaken in human childhood an interest and a reverent attitude towards the great mystery of life. Growing up, a person should comprehend with his mind how complex everything in the living world is intertwined, interconnected, how this world is strong and at the same time vulnerable, how everything in our life depends on the wealth of the earth, on the health of wildlife. This school must be.
And yet at the beginning of everything is love. Awakened in time, she makes the knowledge of the world interesting and exciting. With it, a person also acquires a certain point of support, an important point of reference for all the values of life. Love for everything that turns green, breathes, makes sounds, sparkles with colors, and there is love that brings a person closer to happiness.
Finished Concise Statement
The volume of Animal Heroes became for me an "alarm clock" of the feeling of nature. For others, walks in the woods, life in the village, an overnight trip were such an "alarm clock".
A person, growing up, must comprehend with his mind the internal interconnection of the entire living world, its strength and vulnerability at the same time, the dependence of everything in our life on the health and wealth of the earth and nature. This school should be
But at the beginning of everything is Love for all living things - the starting point of all life values. It brings a person closer to happiness.
We often talk about the difficulties associated with raising a person starting life. And the biggest problem is the weakening of family ties, the decrease in the importance of the family in raising a child. And if in the early years the family did not lay anything solid in the moral sense in a person, then later society will have a lot of trouble with this citizen.
The other extreme is the overprotection of the child by the parents. This is also a consequence of the weakening of the family principle. Parents have not given their child spiritual warmth and, feeling this guilt, they strive in the future to pay their inner spiritual debt with belated petty care and material benefits.
The world is changing, becoming different. But if the parents could not establish internal contact with the child, shifting the main concerns to grandparents or public organizations, then one should not be surprised that some child acquires cynicism and disbelief in selflessness so early that his life becomes impoverished, becomes flat and dry.
Finished Concise Statement
We often talk about the difficulties of raising a child. The big problem is the weakening of family ties. If the family has not laid in a person anything lasting in the moral sense, then society will have trouble with him.
The other extreme is overprotective parenting. Parents did not give their child spiritual warmth and, feeling this guilt, they strive to repay their spiritual debt with material goods.
The world is changing. But if the parents were unable to establish inner contact with the child, then one should not be surprised that the child will soon acquire cynicism, disbelief in selflessness, that his life becomes flat and dry.
One man was told that his acquaintance spoke of him in unflattering terms. "Are you kidding! the man exclaimed. “I didn’t do anything good for him…” Here it is, the algorithm of black ingratitude, when good is met with evil. In life, it must be assumed, this person met more than once with people who confused the landmarks on the compass of morality.
Morality is the guide to life. And if you deviate from the road, you may well wander into a wind-blown, thorny bush, or even drown. That is, if you behave ungratefully towards others, then people have the right to behave towards you in the same way.
How to treat this phenomenon? Be philosophical. Do good and know that it will surely pay off. I assure you that you yourself will enjoy doing good. That means you will be happy. And this is the goal in life - to live it happily. And remember: exalted natures do good.
Finished Concise Statement
The man was told that his acquaintance spoke badly about him. The man replied that this could not be, because he did nothing good for his friend. In life, this man clearly met with people who confused moral guidelines.
Morality is the guide to life. If you behave ungratefully towards others, then people have the right to behave the same way towards you.
This phenomenon must be treated philosophically. Do good and know that it will pay off, that you yourself will enjoy it and be happy. Good is done by sublime natures.
The essence of the concept of "power" lies in the ability of one person to force another to do what he would not have done of his own free will. The tree, if left undisturbed, grows straight up. But even if it fails to grow evenly, then it, bending under obstacles, tries to get out from under them and again stretch upwards. So is man. Sooner or later he will want to get out of obedience. Submissive people usually suffer, but if once they managed to throw off their "burden", then they often turn into tyrants themselves.
If you command everywhere and everyone, then loneliness awaits a person as the end of life. Such a person will always be alone. After all, he does not know how to communicate on an equal footing. Inside he has a dull, sometimes unconscious anxiety. And he feels calm only when people implicitly carry out his orders. The commanders themselves are unfortunate people, and they breed misfortune, even if they achieve good results.
Commanding and managing people are two different things. The one who manages, knows how to take responsibility for actions. This approach preserves the mental health of both the person himself and those around him.
Finished Concise Statement
Power is the ability of one person to force another to do what he would not do of his own free will. Sooner or later, a person will want to get out of obedience. Submissive people usually suffer, but if they manage to free themselves, they themselves often turn into tyrants.
The man who commands everywhere and everyone will always be alone. Inside he has anxiety, he feels calm when people follow his orders. Commanders breed misfortune.
Commanding and managing people are two different things. The manager knows how to take responsibility. This approach preserves the mental health of both him and those around him.
Is it possible to define what art is with one exhaustive formula? Of course not. Art is charm and witchcraft, it is the revelation of the funny and the tragic, it is morality and immorality, it is the knowledge of the world and man. In art, a person creates his image as something separate, capable of existing outside of himself and remaining after him as his trace in history.
The moment of man's turning to creativity is perhaps the greatest discovery, unparalleled in history. Indeed, through art, each individual person and nation as a whole comprehends his own characteristics, his life, his place in the world. Art allows you to get in touch with individuals, peoples and civilizations that are distant from us in time and space. And not just to get in touch, but to recognize and understand them, because the language of art is universal, and it is this language that makes it possible for humanity to feel itself as a single whole.
That is why, since ancient times, an attitude to art has been formed not as entertainment or fun, but as a powerful force capable of not only capturing the image of time and man, but also passing it on to descendants.
Finished Concise Statement
Is it possible to define what art is? No. Art is the knowledge of the world and man. In art, a person creates his image as something that can leave his mark on history.
Turning a person to creativity is the greatest discovery, because art allows you to get in touch with both individuals and entire nations, understand and recognize them. The language of art provided humanity with the opportunity to feel like a whole.
That is why, since ancient times, art has been treated as a powerful force capable of conveying the image of time and man to future generations.
War was a cruel and rude school for children. They were not sitting at desks, but in frozen trenches, and in front of them were not notebooks, but armor-piercing shells and machine-gun belts. They did not yet have life experience and therefore did not understand the true value of simple things that you do not attach importance to in everyday peaceful life.
The war filled their spiritual experience to the limit. They could cry not from grief, but from hatred, they could childishly rejoice at the spring crane wedge, as they never rejoiced either before the war or after the war, with tenderness to keep in their souls the warmth of a bygone youth. Those who survived returned from the war, having managed to preserve in themselves a pure, radiant world, faith and hope, becoming more irreconcilable to injustice, kinder to good.
Although the war has already become history, the memory of it must live on, because the main participants in history are People and Time. Not to forget the Time means not to forget the People, not to forget the People - it means not to forget the Time.
Finished Concise Statement
The war was a cruel school for children. They did not yet have life experience and did not understand the value of simple things that you do not attach importance to in a peaceful life.
The war filled their spiritual experience to the limit. They could cry from hatred, rejoice at the spring crane wedge. The survivors returned from the war, retaining a clean world, becoming more implacable to injustice and kinder to good.
The memory of the war must live on, because the main participants in history are People and Time. Do not forget Time - do not forget People, and vice versa.
In childhood, a person is happy, as they say now, by default. By nature, a child is a creature instinctively predisposed to happiness. No matter how difficult and even tragic his life may be, he still rejoices and constantly finds more and more reasons for this. Perhaps because there is nothing to compare life with yet. He still does not suspect that it can be somehow different, but most likely, all the same, because the soul has not yet had time to cover itself with a shell and is more open to goodness and hope than the soul of an adult.
And with age, everything seems to turn inside out. No matter how calmly and prosperously life develops, we will not calm down until we find in it some kind of splinter, awkwardness, malfunction, cling to it and feel deeply unhappy. And we believe in the drama we have invented, we sincerely complain about it to our friends, we waste time, health, and spiritual strength on experiences.
It is only when a really real tragedy happens that we realize how absurd the imagined suffering is and how trifling the reason for it. Then we clutch our heads and say to ourselves: “Lord, what a fool I was when I suffered because of some nonsense. No, to live for your own pleasure and enjoy every minute.
Finished Concise Statement
In childhood, a person is happy. The child is instinctively predisposed to happiness, no matter how difficult his life may be. Maybe he just has nothing to compare to. But, most likely, his soul is more open to goodness and hopes than the soul of an adult.
With age, no matter how calm our life is, we will not rest until we find a problem in it and feel unhappy. We spend time, health, mental strength on experiences.
We understand how absurd imaginary suffering is only with the advent of real tragedy. Then we clutch our heads and say: "What a fool I was when I suffered because of such nonsense, and did not live for my own pleasure."
There is simply no and cannot be a universal recipe for how to choose the right, the only true, only path in life intended for you. And the final choice always remains with the individual.
We make this choice already in childhood, when we choose friends, learn to build relationships with peers, and play. But most of the most important decisions that determine the path of life, we still make in our youth. According to scientists, the second half of the second decade of life is the most crucial period. It is at this time that a person, as a rule, chooses the most important thing for the rest of his life: his closest friend, the circle of his main interests, his profession.
It is clear that such a choice is a responsible matter. It cannot be brushed aside, it cannot be postponed until later. You should not hope that the mistake can be corrected later: it will be in time, the whole life is ahead! Something, of course, can be corrected, changed, but not everything. And wrong decisions will not remain without consequences. After all, success comes to those who know what they want, decisively make a choice, believe in themselves and stubbornly achieve their goals.
Finished Concise Statement
There is no universal recipe for choosing the right path in life. The final choice is up to the individual.
We make this choice in childhood with the choice of friends in the game. But we still make most of the most important decisions in our youth. In the most crucial period - in the second half of the second decade of life - a person chooses the most important thing: a friend, interests, profession.
Such a responsible choice cannot be brushed aside. The error of such a choice may not be able to be corrected afterwards. Wrong decisions will not remain without consequences. Success comes to those who know what they want, are determined, persistent and believe in themselves.
There are values that change, get lost, disappear, becoming the dust of time. But no matter how society changes, eternal values remain for thousands of years, which are of great importance for people of all generations and cultures. One of these eternal values, of course, is friendship.
People very often use this word in their language, they call certain people their friends, but few people can formulate what friendship is, who is a true friend, what he should be. All definitions of friendship are similar in one thing: friendship is a relationship based on the mutual openness of people, complete trust and constant readiness to help each other at any moment.
The main thing is that friends have the same life values, similar spiritual guidelines. Then they will be able to be friends, even if their attitudes to certain phenomena of life are different. And then true friendship is not affected by time and distance. People can talk to each other only occasionally, be apart for years, and still be very close friends. Such constancy is the hallmark of true friendship.
Finished Concise Statement
There are values that change, disappear. But no matter how society changes, eternal values always remain. One of these eternal values is friendship.
People often use this word, but few can articulate what friendship is, a true friend. All definitions of friendship are similar in one thing: in real friendship there is openness, trust and willingness to help.
The main thing is that friends have the same spiritual guidelines, similar life values. Then friendship is not affected by time and distance. People may rarely communicate, but remain close friends. Such constancy is the hallmark of true friendship.
I remember hundreds of boys' answers to the question: what kind of person do you want to become. Strong, brave, courageous, smart, resourceful, fearless ... And no one said - kind. Why is kindness not put on a par with such virtues as courage and bravery? But without kindness, genuine warmth of the heart, the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.
And experience confirms that good feelings should be rooted in childhood. If they are not brought up in childhood, you will never bring them up, because they are assimilated simultaneously with the knowledge of the first and most important truths, the main of which is the value of life, someone else's, one's own, animal and plant life. Humanity, kindness, benevolence are born in unrest, joys and sorrows.
Good feelings, emotional culture are the focus of humanity. Today, when there is enough evil in the world, we should be more tolerant, attentive and kind towards each other, towards the surrounding living world and do the most courageous deeds in the name of goodness. Following the path of goodness is the most acceptable and the only path for a person. He is tested, he is faithful, he is useful both to a person alone and to society as a whole.
Finished Concise Statement
When asked about what kind of person you want to become, none of the hundreds of boys answered "kind". Without kindness, the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.
Good feelings should be brought up in childhood, you won’t bring them up later, because they are assimilated with the knowledge of the most important truths, the main of which are the values of any life. Humanity, kindness, benevolence are born in joys and sorrows.
Emotional culture is the center of humanity. Today we should be more tolerant, attentive and kind towards the world around us and do bold deeds in the name of goodness. The path of kindness is the most acceptable, true and useful for both one person and society.
I was betrayed by a loved one, I was betrayed by my best friend. Unfortunately, we hear such statements quite often. Most often betray those in whom we have invested our soul. The pattern here is this: the more beneficence, the stronger the betrayal. In such situations, the saying of Victor Hugo is recalled: "I am indifferent to the knife blows of the enemy, but the pin prick of my friend is painful to me."
Many suffer mockery of themselves, hoping that the traitor's conscience will wake up. But what is not there cannot wake up. Conscience is a function of the soul, and the traitor does not have it. The traitor usually explains his act by the interests of the cause, but in order to justify the first betrayal, he commits the second, third, and so on ad infinitum.
Betrayal accurately destroys the dignity of a person, as a result, traitors behave differently. Someone defends his behavior, trying to justify his deed, someone falls into a feeling of guilt and fear of impending retribution, and someone just tries to forget everything, without burdening himself with either emotions or thoughts. In any case, the life of a traitor becomes empty, worthless and meaningless.
Finished Concise Statement
I was betrayed by a loved one, best friend. We hear this quite often. More often those in whom we have invested our souls betray, and the more beneficence, the stronger the betrayal.
Many suffer mockery of themselves, hoping that the traitor's conscience will wake up. But what is not there cannot wake up. Conscience is a function of the soul, and the traitor does not have it.
Betrayal destroys the dignity of a person, as a result, traitors behave differently: defend their behavior, fall into a feeling of guilt and fear, or try to forget everything. In any case, the life of a traitor becomes empty and meaningless.
The Great Patriotic War goes further and further into the past, but the memory of it is alive in the hearts and souls of people. Indeed, how can one forget our unprecedented feat, our irreplaceable sacrifices made in the name of victory over the most insidious and cruel enemy - German fascism.
The four years of war cannot be compared with any other years of our history in terms of the severity of the experience. But the memory of a person weakens over time, bit by bit the secondary disappears bit by bit: less significant and bright; and then the essential. In addition, there are fewer and fewer veterans, those who went through the war and could talk about it. If the self-sacrifice and steadfastness of the people are not reflected in documents and works of art, then the bitter experience of past years will be forgotten. And this cannot be allowed!
The theme of the Great Patriotic War has nourished literature and art for decades. Many wonderful films have been made about the life and feat of a man in the war, wonderful works of literature have been created. And there is no premeditation here, there is pain that does not leave the soul of the people who lost millions of human lives during the years of the war. But the most important thing in a conversation on this topic is the preservation of measure and tact in relation to the truth of the war, to its participants, the living, but, mainly, the dead.
Finished Concise Statement
The Great Patriotic War goes further and further into the past, but the memory of it is alive in the hearts of people. Unforgettable is our unprecedented feat, our irreplaceable sacrifices made in the name of victory over German fascism.
The four war years were the most difficult in our history. But the memory of a person weakens over time, first the secondary, and then the essential, leaves it. We can forget the bitter experience of past years, but this cannot be allowed.
Many works have been written on the theme of the Great Patriotic War. And there is no premeditation here - there is pain that does not leave the soul of the people. But the most important thing in a conversation on this topic is the preservation of measure and tact in relation to its living and dead participants.
In the modern world there is no person who would not come into contact with art. Its importance in our life is great. Books, cinema, television, theatre, music, painting have firmly entered our lives and have a huge impact on it. But literature has a particularly strong effect on a person.
Contact with the world of art gives us joy and disinterested pleasure. But it would be wrong to see in the works of writers, composers, artists only a means of obtaining pleasure. Of course, we often go to the cinema, sit down to watch TV, pick up a book to relax and have fun. And the artists themselves, writers, composers build their works in such a way as to support and develop the interest and curiosity of viewers, readers, listeners. But the meaning of art in our life is much more serious. It helps a person to better see and understand the world around him and himself.
In order to appreciate kindness and understand its meaning, you must certainly experience it yourself. It is necessary to perceive the ray of someone else's kindness and live in it. One must feel how a ray of this kindness takes possession of the heart, word and deeds of all life. Kindness comes not out of duty, not out of duty, but as a gift.
Someone else's kindness is a premonition of something more, which is not even immediately believed. This is the warmth from which the heart warms up and comes in response. A person who has once experienced kindness cannot but respond sooner or later, confidently or uncertainly, with his kindness.
It is a great happiness to feel the fire of kindness in your heart and give it free rein in life. At this moment, during these hours, a person finds his best in himself, hears the singing of his heart. “I” and “one’s own” are forgotten, someone else’s disappears, for it becomes “mine” and “me”. And for enmity and hatred there is no place in the soul.
If a person's ability to dream is taken away, then one of the most powerful incentives that give rise to culture, art, science and the desire to fight for a beautiful future will disappear. But dreams should not be divorced from reality. They should predict the future and make us feel that we are already living in this future and becoming different ourselves.
Dreams are needed not only for children, but also for adults. It causes excitement, a source of high feelings. It does not allow us to calm down and always shows new sparkling distances, a different life. It disturbs and makes you long for this life. This is its value.
Only a hypocrite can say that we must rest on our laurels and stop. To fight for the future, you need to be able to dream passionately, deeply and effectively. You need to cultivate in yourself a continuous desire for meaningful and beautiful.
What is the benefit of reading? Is it true that reading is good for you? Why do so many people keep reading? After all, not only to relax or take your free time.
The benefits of reading books are obvious. Books broaden the horizons of a person, enrich his inner world, make him smarter. And it is also important to read books because it increases the vocabulary of a person, develops a clear and precise thinking. Everyone can be convinced of this by their own example. One has only to thoughtfully read some classical work, and you will notice how it has become easier to express your own thoughts with the help of speech, to select the right words. A person who reads speaks better. Reading serious works makes us constantly think, it develops logical thinking. Don't believe? And you read something from the classics of the detective genre, for example, "The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes" by Conan Doyle. After reading, you will think faster, your mind will become sharper and you will understand that reading is useful and profitable.
It is also useful to read books because they have a significant impact on our moral guidelines and on our spiritual development. After reading this or that classical work, people sometimes begin to change for the better.
What is a good book? First, the book should be exciting and interesting. After reading the first pages, there should be no desire to put it on the shelf. We are talking about books that make us think, express emotions. Secondly, the book should be written in rich language. Thirdly, it must carry a deep meaning. Original and unusual ideas also make the book useful.
Do not get carried away by any one genre or type of literature. Thus, a passion only for the fantasy genre can turn young readers into goblins and elves who know the way to Avalon much better than the way home.
If you have not read books from the school curriculum or read them in an abbreviated form, you should start with them. Classical literature is a mandatory base for every person. In great works there is disappointment and joy, love and pain, tragedy and comedy. They will teach you to be sensitive, emotional, help you see the beauty of the world, understand yourself and people. Naturally, read non-fiction literature. It will expand your horizons, form knowledge about the world, help you determine your path in life, and provide an opportunity for self-development. We hope that these reasons for reading will make the book your best friend.
Having a family and children is as necessary and natural as it is necessary and natural to work. The family has long been held together by the moral authority of the father, who was traditionally considered the head. The children respected and obeyed their father. He was engaged in agricultural work, construction, logging and firewood. All the burden of peasant labor was shared with him by adult sons.
The management of the household was in the hands of the wife and mother. She was in charge of everything in the house: she looked after the cattle, took care of food, and clothes. She did not do all these works alone: even children, having barely learned to walk, little by little, along with the game, began to do something useful.
Kindness, tolerance, mutual forgiveness of insults grew into mutual love in a good family. Quarrelsomeness and quarrelsomeness were considered a punishment of fate and aroused pity for their bearers. It was necessary to be able to give in, forget the offense, respond with kindness or remain silent. Love and harmony between relatives gave rise to love outside the home. From a person who does not love and does not respect his relatives, it is difficult to expect respect for other people.
The word "culture" is multifaceted. What does true culture carry in the first place? It carries the concept of spirituality, light, knowledge and true beauty. And if people understand this, then our country will become prosperous. And therefore it would be very good if every city and village had its own center of culture, a center of creativity not only for children, but also for people of all ages.
True culture is always aimed at upbringing and education. And such centers should be headed by people who understand well what real culture is, what it consists of, what its significance is.
Such concepts as peace, truth, beauty can become the key note of culture. It would be good if honest and disinterested people, selflessly devoted to their work, respecting each other, were engaged in culture. Culture is a huge ocean of creativity, there is enough space for everyone, there is something for everyone. And if we all together begin to participate in its creation and strengthening, then our entire planet will become more beautiful.
What does it mean to be a cultured person? A cultured person can be considered an educated, well-mannered, responsible person. He respects himself and those around him. A cultured person is also distinguished by creative work, striving for high things, the ability to be grateful, love for nature and homeland, compassion and sympathy for one's neighbor, goodwill.
A cultured person will never lie. He will maintain self-control and dignity in all life situations. He has a clear goal and achieves it. The main goal of such a person is to increase good in the world, to strive to ensure that all people are happy. The ideal of a cultured person is genuine humanity.
Nowadays, people devote too little time to culture. And many do not even think about it throughout their lives. It is good if a person's process of familiarization with culture occurs from childhood. The child gets acquainted with the traditions that pass from generation to generation, absorbs the positive experience of the family and his homeland, learns cultural values. As an adult, he can be useful to society.
Some believe that a person matures at a certain age, for example, at 18, when he becomes an adult. But there are people who remain children even at an older age. What does it mean to be an adult?
Adulthood means independence, that is, the ability to do without anyone's help, guardianship. A person with this quality does everything himself and does not expect support from others. He understands that he must overcome his difficulties himself. Of course, there are situations when a person cannot cope alone. Then you have to ask for help from friends, relatives and acquaintances. But in general, it is not typical for an independent, adult person to rely on others.
There is an expression: the hand should wait for help only from the shoulder. An independent person knows how to be responsible for himself, his deeds and actions. He plans his own life and evaluates himself, without relying on someone else's opinion. He understands that much in life depends on himself. Being an adult means being responsible for someone else. But for this, you also need to become independent, be able to make decisions. Adulthood does not depend on age, but on life experience, on the desire to live life without nannies.
What is friendship? How do they become friends? You will meet friends most often among people of a common fate, one profession, common thoughts. And yet it is impossible to say with certainty that such a commonality determines friendship, because people of different professions can make friends.
Can two opposite characters be friends? Certainly! Friendship is equality and similarity. But at the same time, friendship is inequality and dissimilarity. Friends always need each other, but friends do not always receive equally from friendship. One is friends and gives his experience, the other in friendship is enriched by experience. One, helping a weak, inexperienced, young friend, learns his strength, maturity. Another, weak, recognizes in a friend his ideal, strength, experience, maturity. So, one in friendship gives, the other rejoices in gifts. Friendship is based on similarities, and manifests itself in differences, contradictions, dissimilarities.
A friend is the one who claims your rightness, talent, merit. A friend is one who lovingly exposes you in your weaknesses, shortcomings and vices.
Friendship is not something external. Friendship lies deep in the heart. You can't force yourself to be someone's friend or force someone to be your friend.
For friendship, a lot is needed, first of all, mutual respect. What does it mean to respect your friend? This means reckoning with his opinion and recognizing his positive features. Respect is shown in words and deeds. A respected friend feels that he is valued as a person, respected for his dignity and helped him not only out of a sense of duty. In friendship, trust is important, that is, confidence in the sincerity of a friend, that he will not betray or deceive. Of course, a friend can make mistakes. But we are all imperfect. These are the two main and main conditions for friendship. In addition, for friendship, for example, common moral values are important. People who have different views of what is good and what is evil will find it hard to be friends. The reason is simple: will we be able to show deep respect and, perhaps, trust to a friend if we see that he does things that are unacceptable, in our opinion, and consider this the norm. Strengthen friendships and common interests or hobbies. However, for a friendship that has existed for a long time and has been tested by time, this is not important.
Friendship does not depend on age. They can be very strong and bring a lot of experiences to a person. But without friendship, life is unthinkable.
Many people think that being sincere means to openly and directly say what you think and do what you say. But here's the problem: a person who immediately voices what first came into his head runs the risk of being branded not only natural, but also ill-mannered, or even stupid. Rather, a sincere and natural person is one who knows how to be himself: take off the masks, get out of the usual roles and show his true face.
The main problem is that we do not know ourselves well, we are chasing ghostly goals, money, fashion. Few people consider it important and necessary to direct the vector of attention to their inner world. You need to look into your heart, stop and analyze your thoughts, desires and plans in order to understand what is truly mine, and what is imposed, dictated by friends, parents, society. Otherwise, you risk spending your whole life on goals that you don’t really need at all.
If you look into yourself, you will see a whole world, endless and multifaceted. You will discover your characteristics and talents. You just need to study. And, of course, it will not become easier and easier for you, but it will become more interesting. You will find your life path. The only way to become sincere is to know yourself.
Each person is looking for a place in life, trying to assert his "I". It `s naturally. But how does he find his place? What are the paths to get to it? What moral values carry weight in his eyes? The question is extremely important.
Many of us cannot admit to ourselves that because of a misunderstood, inflated sense of self-worth, because of the unwillingness to appear worse, we sometimes take rash steps, we do not do very well: we don’t ask again, we don’t say “I don’t know” , "I can not" - there are no words. Selfish people cause a feeling of condemnation. However, those who exchange their dignity like small coins are no better. In the life of every person, there are probably moments when he is simply obliged to show his pride, to affirm his “I”. And, of course, this is not always easy to do.
The true value of a person is revealed sooner or later anyway. And the higher this price, the more a person loves not so much himself as others. Leo Tolstoy emphasized that each of us, the so-called small ordinary person, is in fact a historical person who is responsible for the fate of the whole world.
It just seems to us that when something happens to us, it is a unique phenomenon, the only one of its kind. In fact, there is not a single problem that has not already been reflected in world literature. Love, fidelity, jealousy, betrayal, cowardice, the search for the meaning of life - all this has already been experienced by someone, rethought, reasons, answers are found and imprinted on the pages of fiction. The case is small: take it and read it and you will find everything in the book.
Literature, opening the world with the help of the word, creates a miracle, doubles, triples our inner experience, infinitely expands our view of life, of a person, makes our perception thinner. In childhood, we read fairy tales and adventures in order to experience the excitement of search and intrigue. But there comes a time when we feel the need to open the book in order to delve into ourselves with its help. This is the hour of growing up. We are looking for an interlocutor in the book who enlightens, ennobles, teaches.
Here we are with the book. What is happening in our soul? With each book we read, which opens up the pantries of thoughts and feelings before us, we become different. With the help of literature, a person becomes a person. It is no coincidence that the book is called a teacher and a textbook of life.
In the modern world there is no person who would not come into contact with art. Its importance in our life is great. Books, cinema, television, theatre, music, painting have firmly entered our lives and have a huge impact on it.
Contact with the world of art gives us joy and disinterested pleasure. But it would be wrong to see in the works of writers, composers, artists only a means of obtaining pleasure. Of course, we often go to the cinema, sit down to watch TV, pick up a book to relax and have fun. And the artists themselves, writers, composers build their works in such a way as to support and develop the interest and curiosity of viewers, readers, listeners. But the meaning of art in our life is much more serious. It helps a person to better see and understand the world around him and himself.
Art is able to preserve the characteristic features of the era, give people the opportunity to communicate with each other through decades and centuries, becoming a kind of memory repository for future generations. It imperceptibly forms the views and feelings, character, tastes of a person, awakens a love for beauty. That is why, in difficult moments of life, people often turn to works of art, which become a source of spiritual strength and courage.
