Studying the personality of a person, whether it be a woman, a man or a child, one can always reveal a bad inclination to unseemly behavior due, for example, to mistakes in education, psychological trauma. But even bad heredity can be secured. Consider the main negative traits of human character.
The desire to dominate everything, ignoring any needs of other people. Explicit or implicit demand for submission and discipline from everyone with whom a person intersects. Someone else's opinion is not taken into account, any disobedience is suppressed without an attempt to find mutually profitable solution. It is believed that this is a typical negative trait of the Russian character.
The desire to conflict with others. In early childhood, this is an obligatory negative character trait of a child who is learning ways to protect his interests. For an aggressive adult, provocative, sometimes deliberately false statements, raised tone, and insults are typical. Sometimes attempts are made to influence the opponent physically.
A painful desire to achieve the set goal, regardless of the size of the risks, ignoring one's own and others' logical arguments about the excess of spending over the value of the desired result. Often becomes the cause of situations leading to death, loss of health or significant financial losses.
Pathological desire for personal material gain in any situation. Gaining profit at any cost becomes the only source of positive emotions in life. At the same time, the duration of pleasant sensations from the benefits received is extremely short-lived - due to the uncontrolled constant desire to enrich oneself even more.
The absence of an emotional reaction to most external stimuli due to a particular temperament or due to the body's defensive reaction to stress. It is one of the reasons for the impossibility of achieving even simple goals due to the inability or unwillingness to concentrate, to make strong-willed efforts.
Careless fulfillment of obligations due to unwillingness to act according to the rules already known to all or misunderstanding of the algorithms necessary for the quick and least costly achievement of existing goals. Often this is a typical negative character trait of a woman who has just escaped from excessive parental care.
Real or deliberately demonstrated lack of interest in a particular subject, object, event, duties due to innate emotional coldness, experienced severe stress or, instilled from infancy, a sense of superiority over people with a different social status, different faith, nationality, race.
Consciously chosen, imposed during upbringing or due to moral immaturity, the position of refusal from a real awareness of the consequences of one's own actions, unwillingness to make decisions that affect one's own and others' quality of life. In difficult everyday situations, active actions are not carried out because of the expectation that the problem will resolve itself.
Absence individual traits, because of which an individual subject is easily “lost” in the general mass of people like him. In the process of communication, the “gray man” does not arouse sympathy because of his obsession with uninteresting topics, in the team he is uninitiative, boring, afraid of innovations and opposes them in every possible way.
Emotional indifference to other people's troubles, inability or unwillingness to sympathize, sympathize with people in particular and living beings in general, experiencing physical or emotional pain. Sometimes it is deliberate inhumanity in actions that cause suffering and even death of the objects chosen as victims.
Intentional or unconscious violation of the norms, the sequence of actions adopted in a given society in relation to a particular situation. The reason for intentional swagger may be the desire to provoke a conflict or draw attention to one's own person, unconscious - errors in education, emotional immaturity.
A painful need to constantly participate in a dialogue with one or more interlocutors, regardless of the content of the conversation, the degree of enthusiasm for it by other participants, the relevance of the conversation. The main goal of such an interlocutor is not to receive new information, but the role of the narrator when in contact with someone. At the same time, he can disseminate information that others would prefer to keep secret.
The inability to keep any promises and take into account the interests of others, the lack of the ability to move for a long time in order to achieve one goal, the desire for a constant change in the circle of friends, partners. The absence of principles and clear behavioral boundaries, the rapid fading of interest in a particular occupation, a person.
Passionate desire for control over all and the expectation of unquestioning obedience, the desire for unlimited power, especially over the more educated and skilled. Intoxication with one's own superior position in situations where others are forced to seek help or seek protection, material support.
In a pathological form, this is a subconscious tendency to perceive behavior imposed from outside without one's own conscious understanding and weighing the results of one's actions performed under the influence of someone else's authority. However, reduced suggestibility can cause learning difficulties.
The inability to find a balance between originality and vulgarity in communication, when choosing clothes, social guidelines, and so on. For example, during a dialogue, the interlocutor communicates in raised tones, mannerisms, and does not disdain greasy jokes. When choosing an outfit, he prefers catchy things, and constituent elements often do not match well with each other.
The inability or unwillingness to determine logically correct conclusions even from the simplest everyday problems, the tendency to see a healthy grain in pseudoscientific and populist statements, the inability to subject information from sources that are independently elevated to the status of authoritative ones to a reasonable critical analysis.
Confidence in the social, moral, mental insignificance of others, the inability to forgive for personal and other people's mistakes, the denial of the possibility of having worthy features in other subjects of society. It develops against the background of distortions made in education, degradation of the personality due to illness, immaturity of the personality, coupled with a high social status.
Unwillingness to adhere to a polite, accepted in a normal society format of communication with interlocutors due to personality deformation due to illness, injury, stress, or the frequent need to take a defensive position when encroaching on territory and rights. Typical manifestations: communication in raised tones, rudeness, obscene language.
The desire to minimize costs even to the detriment of health, basic hygiene and common sense. The pathological pursuit of material stability can manifest itself in the form of a refusal to get rid of garbage, rubbish, ignoring reasonable requests loved one about purchasing essentials.
The desire to cause discomfort to living subjects for the sake of personal moral satisfaction. The impact on the victim can be both intangible - in the form of insults and refusal to satisfy some important emotional needs, and physical - through causing pain, torment, encroachment on life.
The inability to remember some data necessary in everyday life, a combination of actions to achieve a specific goal, an algorithm for starting or turning off the device. It occurs due to age-related changes in the brain, information overload. May be the result of a stressful situation that you want to forget.
The desire to enjoy the performance of actions or the use of a certain substance, even if the source of pleasant emotions is harmful to health, relationships with others, leads to large amounts of money, pushes to a crime because of the desire to achieve a "high", in the absence of legal access to it.
Inability to enjoy any personal benefits, achievements, qualities. The tendency to constantly compare the values of oneself and others. Moreover, the “crumbs” on the other side always seem larger, tastier and more desirable than their own “placers”. In a pathological form, it deprives of cheerfulness, the ability to soberly assess one's own and other people's merits.
Constant belittling in one's own eyes of one's own natural talents, trained abilities, denial of the value of personal developments, inability to force oneself to declare personal achievements in a circle of authoritative persons. Formed due to overly strict upbringing, psychological trauma or disease nervous system.
The habit of teaching everyone and everywhere, repeatedly discussing the same topic, despite the obvious lack of interest in it among people who are trying to be drawn into a dialogue. The reason lies in the pathological love of attention and endless conversations on any topic, even if the instigator of the conversation is a complete layman in the topic under discussion.
An emotional manifestation of strong dissatisfaction with something, a landmark indicating the presence of conditions that are clearly uncomfortable for a person. In the absence of actions that eliminate the cause of the formation of feelings, over time it can push to commit an offense, so you should not ignore the manifestations of anger.
The bad habit of demanding the fulfillment of one's desire in as soon as possible, without taking into account the capabilities of the person to whom the claim is made. The refusal to control and restrain one's own needs, to endure the slightest inconvenience, and to personally make emotional and physical efforts to achieve what one wants.
Lack of desire to strain for personal needs, a tendency to idle pastime all day long. In behavior, there is a desire to obtain comfort at the expense of the work of others, a deep aversion to useful activity, even in minimal volumes. When applying for a job, this negative character trait for a resume should not be indicated.
Conscious systematic statement of unreliable information to interlocutors for the slanderous purpose, for the sake of own benefit or masking personal blunders in some activity. The pathological form is inherent in self-doubt individuals who try to impress others with fictional stories about themselves.
Feigned assurances of love, sincere admiration and goodwill towards the interlocutor during a conversation with him. The purpose of such behavior is fawning and the desire to flatter for one's own benefit, while hiding the true, perhaps even malicious, moods towards the participant in the dialogue or the object of the conversation.
The tendency to excessive constant praise aloud of other people's real and imaginary virtues, virtues, for the sake of their own self-interest. The object of exaltation can also be deliberately negative actions, deeds influential person, specially whitewashed by the flatterer and voiced by him as the only the right decision in the situation under consideration.
In a pathological form, this is the desire to find out information of interest, regardless of decency, personal feelings of the interrogated and the situation of the situation in which communication takes place. The cause of unhealthy curiosity is a painful desire to be aware of even those events that are not related to the person showing interest.
The habit of attaching great importance to their insignificant statements, actions. The widespread sticking out of their imaginary achievements as opposed to the really important and heroic deeds of the people around them. Attention to mediocre details at the expense of values, the desire for reporting on household expenses up to "one thousandth".
The tendency to focus personal attention on all minor and major troubles, worldly conflicts, far-fetched grievances, so that over time, it is imperative to pay handsomely to each of the offenders. At the same time, the duration of the time period from the moment of receiving a real or imaginary insult does not matter.
Unceremonious behavior in any situations, the desire to achieve what you want with minimal cost and "over the heads" of others. Such behavior is formed due to improper upbringing, because of a difficult childhood, or, conversely, because of spoiledness, which has consolidated the habit of always getting what you want at any cost.
The perception of the majority of others as subjects of a deliberately lower category due to a fictitious difference in social status or a real difference in material, national, racial or other grounds. The reason may be a defensive reaction to the wounding of pride in the past or distortions in education.
Inability or unwillingness to independently deal with emerging problems, have fun or relax. The reason may lie in emotional immaturity, fear of loneliness, the desire to increase self-esteem through active participation in the lives of other people, even if they experience obvious discomfort from this and openly declare it.
Unreasonable and unreasonable self-praise, narcissism under any circumstances, the desire to embellish the results of one’s actions and the actions taken themselves, selfishness, indifference not only to strangers, but also close people, interest only in personal comfort and benefit.
Unwillingness to qualitatively fulfill the undertaken or assigned obligations, neglect in behavior with people in domestic or professional relations, insufficient attention to entrusted values, inability - due to poor education or personal deformation, to understand the importance of diligence when working on something.
An increased negative reaction to everyday troubles due to hypertrophied egoism. It is because of him that you want the world to spin at your feet, and those around you, forgetting about your own needs, meet your expectations around the clock and all year round: they are polite, generous and caring, striving to provide someone else's comfort.
Confidence that the true picture of the world is available only to you, and other explanations of the structure of the universe and the principles of interaction between man and environment- a complete invention of narrow-minded dorks. It arises due to insufficient education, a congenital developmental defect that prevents adequate assimilation of educational information.
The tendency to accept as reality the imaginary catastrophic consequences of any, even minor, incidents in own life and the world in general. It is a manifestation of a bad upbringing by a reinsurer, an overly violent fantasy or a disorder of the nervous system due to stress, illness.
A penchant for frilly outfits, demonstrating real or ostentatious material security through the acquisition of unnecessary luxury items. Or, and sometimes both, passion for sebaceous jokes, obscene anecdotes, often voiced in an absolutely inappropriate environment for the sake of causing a feeling of embarrassment in the majority of listeners.
A negative reaction to an irritant, expressed in an excessive manifestation of emotions, the saturation of which does not correspond to the strength of the impact of an unpleasant factor for some reason. The cause of irritability can be external or internal, caused by congestion of the nervous system or exhaustion of the body by a disease.
The inability to rationally spend income, including the desire to systematically or constantly make acquisitions for the sake of the process itself, and not for the purpose of exploiting the purchased item or thing. It is based on the desire to feel like a "master of the world", to correspond to the status of a financially secure person.
Showing dissatisfaction or distrust of the subject, which has a certain value for the jealous. It is expressed as a suspicion of infidelity or a greater emotional predisposition to another person (in the place of the accused there may be not only a spouse, but also a mother, sister, friend - the list can be endless).
The habit of justifiably and unreasonably accusing oneself of a multitude of sins of various magnitudes. For example, in insufficient attention to the performance of duties, although in reality at work or in relationships a person gives all the best. Possible reasons: low self-esteem, actively supporting an interested environment, perfectionism.
Unreasonable exaltation of one's abilities, supposedly allowing one to cope with a certain or any task. It is the cause of bragging and risky acts, often committed with a rejection of the rules of safety, the laws of physics and the arguments of logic. It is based on inexperience, dependence on the desire to live on the verge of a foul.
Lack of ability to perform volitional effort for the sake of the desired goal or to resist dangerous, illegal temptations, morally degraded individuals. The tendency to submit to other people's decisions, even when they require serious sacrifices. Such a negative character trait of a man can make him the object of ridicule in the team.
The inability to resist the opponent due to insufficiently developed willpower, susceptibility to a phobia. It can be expressed as a flight from the scene of some events due to an imaginary or real danger to one's own health, life, despite the fact that other possible participants in the incident are left in danger.
The desire to receive praise for real and imaginary merits. The desire to first of all have a positive image, and not be worthy of compliments. Illegibility in the quality of voiced approvals - flattery is also perceived favorably. Moreover, it is not always possible to distinguish it from sincere statements.
The desire to act only according to one's own ideas about the correctness of the chosen path, the rejection of authorities, ignoring the well-known rules, purely because of the habit of acting the way one has decided. Lack of ability to be flexible in the face of a conflict of interests, unwillingness or inability to take into account the goals and capabilities of others.
Conscious selfishness, the desire to live in comfort, regardless of the possible inconvenience that follows from this for others. Their interests are always exalted above the desires of other people, the opinions of the latter on this and other occasions are never taken into account. All decisions are based solely on self-interest.
We live in a world where our behavior is dictated by social norms and rules. But, as you know, there are exceptions to all rules. Some citizens are respectable, while others do not take into account the opinions of others and transgress morality and even the law. The thing is that from birth, each of us has positive and negative qualities. Their manifestation depends on education and the ability to cope with various stressful situations. How to find out your dark sides or the shortcomings of the person you are interested in, and in what moments can virtue manifest itself? We will talk about this now.
It so happened that in the world all things have two sides - good and bad. Day gives way to night, good always fights evil, and even in the still waters, someone is found. The same applies to a person. One great one once said - "Even if all the people on the planet are imprisoned, everyone in the depths of their souls will guess why." Why does this happen and people who look the same have a set of positive and negative qualities of character, and where are these qualities most characteristically manifested? There are situations when even the most conscientious person, according to others, acts unexpectedly badly.
Let us first consider some examples of the manifestation of those qualities that are negative:
But where there are negatives, there are always positives. personal qualities. The so-called virtues are highly valued and strongly encouraged by society. R Let's look at the same examples, but from the outside best qualities person:
All the positive and negative qualities of a person exist only in the aggregate. Absolutely perfect people do not exist. After all, even if a person is well-educated and has shown himself well in stressful situations, he may have bad habits, which also apply to negative qualities. As for the attitude of society towards the manifestation of good and bad sides of character in a person, the following provisions have been strengthened here from time immemorial:
Be that as it may, each person has the right to choose the model of behavior that suits him and hide all his shortcomings deep in his soul. But even in a barrel of honey there is always a spoonful of honey. For balance, nature created good and evil. And what side to take we choose throughout life.
Character is something unified, holistic. How does it affect a person's life? Globally! The fact is that all our actions are justified by something. We do what our mind and heart tells us to do. Another factor also affects our lives. In any person there is something like an inner core, which has a direct impact on his behavior. It's about character. This core consists of certain ones that are entrenched in the process of daily activities.
The list of which will be discussed in this article are different. Some of them make us better, others worse. The list of character traits is extensive. All of them affect our lives in one way or another. Can character be changed? Yes, you can. It's hard to do, but sometimes you just can't do without it. We are not always to blame for who we have become. Wrong upbringing, bad company, inappropriate education - all this can have a bad effect on the character of the individual. Bad qualities are instilled in a person, and he begins to think that they are the norm. Timely recognition of the problem will help to solve it.
The character traits we are going to look at also affect how we communicate with others. Do you have few friends? Perhaps the problem is not with people, but with the fact that you need to change your inner being.
Character traits: list
An important positive character trait is diligence. Any person who is ready to work will achieve a lot. This is not about the ability to unload wagons, but about labor in general: both physical and intellectual. Those with such a character trait as diligence do not stand still, but are constantly looking for more and more new types of activities in which they could realize themselves. The opposite of this character trait is laziness. Of course, she spoils for her reason becomes difficult to climb, inert, unable to achieve her goals.
Character traits, the list of which is wide, include kindness. Kind people open to the world, always ready to help those in need. They refuse evil, because they understand that bad deeds will not lead to anything good. The opposite character trait is anger.
What can be said about cowardice? People who are owners of this character trait are constantly in the back rows. Often life passes them by. They do not find in themselves the strength and courage to undertake something new, something that would change not only themselves, but also the world.
The character traits listed here are varied. They can also include sociability. It helps us to establish contacts with other people, make new acquaintances, maintain old ones, and so on. Man is a social being. This means that, living in a society, it is necessary to be able to contact with their own kind. Lack of sociability is a negative character trait. Being single is good, but not always. It is worth thinking about what lies ahead of us. Sooner or later, you still want to see people next to you who you can really rely on.
Here is a list of positive human qualities:
Goodwill;
openness;
philanthropy;
perseverance;
openness to new things;
seriousness;
good nature;
Restraint;
Tact;
Gaiety;
Purposefulness;
Here is the list of the person:
inertia;
Envy;
Aggressiveness;
Idleness;
Closure;
malevolence;
Not everything in our world is divided into black and white, even character traits fall under the principles of “everything is relative” and “everything is good in moderation”
We tend to divide personality traits into "bad" and "good". Being, for example, kind and modest is “good”, while being lazy and pessimistic is “bad”. Things, though, are not always so banal. Here are 10 traits that are usually viewed negatively, but they can be beneficial.
Living in a little clutter is hardly a big sin, though many people equate clutter with being unproductive, but that's a myth. In fact, it was that people who desk a little mess, more creative and willing to take risks. Clutter can be inspiring. Just do not leave dirty banana skins, and everything will be fine.
Of course, thinking only about yourself and ignoring others is bad, but ideal selflessness has its problems. Many of us can become a little more selfish and learn to say “no” without fear of being seen as a scoundrel. If you try to please others all the time, it will cause stress and lack of time for the really important things. So consider saying no to the next project. Disclaimer by email, even if some emails go unanswered. You must help yourself in order to be able to help others.
A big ego often manifests itself as looking down on others, but it comes in many forms. Arrogance, as we know, is bad: arrogant people put others down in order to elevate themselves. Self-confidence on the other hand, that is, self-satisfaction in good sense- this is good. It can promote productive work, help find a romantic partner and more - and without humiliating others. So don't be afraid to build your confidence. It's good to have a high opinion of yourself, but don't get too arrogant and you'll be fine.
Most people consider it a weakness. Of course, excessive shyness can hinder certain opportunities, but it also has its strengths: shy people tend to be more reflective and observant than others, and they are often very good listeners. Overcoming shyness will help you become more confident, but it won't eliminate the virtues you already have. Just don't confuse shyness with introversion.
It can interfere with concentrating on serious work - look, squirrel! - but it can also help you be more creative. When you are not focused, you consider more wide range information and think more openly. Concentration and distraction together play an important role in our lives - and one without the other can block your path to all possibilities.
There is a difference between a cynic and a cynical goat. In fact, many people could become more critical of the world around them. Distracting yourself from your emotional attachment to things can help you become more rational, and being skeptical can help you avoid scams and other set-ups.
Neuroticism, according to an American Psychologist article, is "the tendency to respond negative emotions to threat, disappointment, or loss." This can have a negative impact on health, but some studies show that these anxieties can be responded to in in a positive way with some mindfulness to balance the mood. And, as we know, mindfulness can be the first sign - so it's time to learn it.
Accepting criticism is hard, so the world is telling you to get thick skinned. And, of course, to a certain extent this is good, but ignoring criticism, you will not achieve anything. Instead of ignoring criticism, learn to take it to heart and use it to your advantage. Just don't let yourself get hurt.
Nobody likes a pessimist, but a healthy dose of pessimism doesn't hurt. The thought that everything could fall apart helps you plan. similar situations or even avoid them entirely. The ancient Stoics even believed that pessimism could help deal with losses if they happened. As long as you are not a fatalist, a small one will do you good.
For ten hard workers, there is always a person who is too lazy to work - and instead of hard work, he is looking for ways to automate the process. Laziness can breed ingenuity if used properly. It can encourage you to find a job that you enjoy and avoid procrastination. In short, it is a strong motivation to get settled in life. Just don't let your laziness suck all the juice out of you, otherwise you will never get out of bed.
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Many of our traits we bring into life from childhood. If there is a lot of pretense and lies around, then an opportunist grows up, if rudeness, then the person becomes rude. I think that there are several human traits that are unpleasant to everyone and if you get rid of them, then the world will become a better place.
1.Arrogance.(Meaning = uncomfortably proud and acts as if he is more important or knows more than other people.) We've all fallen for this. This is mainly for men. This can also be seen in the relation of the upper class to the lower. Unfortunately, the class structure is the basis of modern states.
2.Rudeness- (Meaning = impoliteness, offensiveness). It's full of it at every turn. Even more than that, this quality sometimes allows you to move up the class ladder. Quality is directly related to arrogance.
3. dominance, dominance. (The desire to rule autocratically or in a system of power). If there are no barriers, then a powerful person tends to tyranny. Such people can be found in the office and at home. This can be attributed to a form of abuse, but not everyone understands this. Power-hungry people are essentially sociopaths who cannot be trusted with unlimited power.
4. Dishonesty.(Meaning = dishonest behavior). One of the most disgusting traits of a person. This is annoying especially if you know that the person is lying and lying. If you want to have a good relationship with someone, then the lie will not let you do it. If you are honest, then people will trust you.
5. inconstancy. (The meaning of = describes a person whose mood tends to change very unexpectedly.) Unfortunately it's mostly women. What influences these changes is difficult to say, maybe the air they breathe, lighting or something else, but there is no constancy in women.
6. Vanity.(A person with a high opinion of himself). Arrogance is annoying. On the one hand, having a high opinion of yourself is not so bad, but at the same time belittling others is already quite unpleasant.
7. Unreliability.(Meaning = a person cannot be relied upon). Another quality that can be very annoying. Now this is much more common than reliability. But luckily, this is pretty easy to figure out. When you see an unreliable person, you begin to suspect the existence in him of such qualities as laziness, disorganization, selfishness.
8. Addiction- (Meaning = rely on someone or something for help, support, etc.). I'm talking here about people who are overly dependent, especially in relationships. No, it's always bad. If people love each other, then this is normal.
9. Pessimism- (Meaning = the tendency to see, anticipate, or emphasize only bad or unwanted outcomes, conditions, problems, etc.) This is a direct way to lose friends. It's pretty funny when you see a grumpy guy in the office moaning about everything, but deep down you know he loves the world. Pessimism drains your energy.
10. Condescension. (To show or imply one's superiority). Another feature that is very annoying. Pushes people away. And most importantly, there are no reasons for exalting one's personality.
It is believed that a person's personality is divided between a dark and a light beginning, and that supposedly everything bad must be rejected, and everything good must be taken on faith. People really strive to cultivate positive qualities in their personality, such as selflessness, banal kindness, but most forget that the world is far from being kind to them - it is full of anger, violence and evil. And at times, to be good and strong man who is able to overcome evil, you need to let into your life a number of qualities that have been considered bad since ancient times. Consider that this is a kind of “personality weapon”, which in good hands becomes extremely useful.
Let's start with something simpler - self-confidence. Do not confuse self-confidence with self-confidence, which is a positive and indispensable quality of any person. However, if self-confidence is based on your positive qualities, your skills and abilities, then self-confidence is not based on anything. There is nothing behind it, you just deceive your expectations, thinking that you will cope with all the troubles that life will send you.
It doesn’t sound like much, but it is self-confidence that allows you to do those reckless actions that you would never do in a sober mind. Self-confidence is a feeling that deceives you, but it helps you meet girls, demand a raise, start a crazy business, quit your job and go to a rock band when you are in your late thirties. Self-confidence is a boon when you want to change your life.
The older generation often complains about us, young and stupid, as a particularly cynical part of society. And - we easily joke about death, violence, all kinds of horror. We can laugh at terrorist attacks, religion, the feelings of others. It would seem that everything is to blame for mass culture, the destruction of traditional values, the impoverishment of the spirit, but, on the other hand, are we not now living in the most peaceful time? Ain't no now major wars? Doesn't cynicism help us protect ourselves from outside pressure? Is it not this “bad quality” that makes us immune to the slogans of the next “leaders and leaders” who want to plunge the world into an abyss of chaos by opening the millstones of war?
Cynicism is a great defense for those of us who fear being influenced by others. And this protection works. It carries more morality high level while paradoxically remaining the most immoral quality of a person. So perhaps we will laugh once more at death while others fall into madness and violence.
What could be worse than a guy who cares too much about his own appearance? Only a man who does not think about him at all, and in this regard, the impressions of the girls who met with both of them are indicative. There are opinion polls on this topic, and psychological research who say that "daffodils" are more favorable than "real men who bathe every three days." well-groomed man always pleasant, in any communication - you immediately see that this guy, on whom a suit fits chic, who has recently been cut, has a good life, and he has many great moments ahead of him. If you see a guy in front of you who wears holey pants, a dirty jacket and worn shoes, then you already see in advance that the person does not control his life.
So being a narcissist isn't always a bad thing. Yes, men from the factory can look askance at you, but girls from the street, bars, offices, all planets of all galaxies will look at you warmly. The main thing is not to go too far.
Impulsivity is a quality that is inherent in teenagers. They clutch at one thing, then another, trying to find themselves. They either cry, or laugh, or get angry for no reason - they are unstable. Adult life implies stability, but when it comes to interesting adult life, and not boring and everyday, then you must bring a little impulsiveness into your destiny. At a minimum, so that your life is bright for impressions, as a maximum, to keep your beloved woman.
We mean that women, despite their, no doubt, calm nature, love men who exude the spirit of adventurism. Roughly speaking, they like those who are ready to break into a journey at any second, who suddenly want to engage in fencing, and then draw pictures in between boxing fights. Yes, it is natural that girls who spend their lives with such guys want someone calm and static, but they will still remember " best years of their lives”, which they will spend far away from them.
Rage can be a trait of a wild beast that should be shot down so that it does not harm others, or it can be a trait of a noble warrior who uses the power of rage only to protect his loved ones. However, in both cases, the emotion is the same, and it helps you cope with the superior forces of the enemy. Yes, this emotional outburst, which has always been considered dangerous, can infuse strength in your muscles and determination in your brain. It is essential when you face danger or when you have to protect yourself and others.
On the other hand, the essential feature of "righteous rage" is that you must be able to control it. In other words, you have to turn on your brain in fits of madness that the Vikings were so famous for. Many schools teach their students to control rage and direct it towards right direction. Perhaps you should enroll in one of these schools today - it will help you in the future.
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There are such character traits and behaviors that every person wants to see in his soul mate, even if he does not admit it to himself. With owners of such qualities, it is warm, calm and comfortable. website shares them with you.
A self-sufficient person does not compare himself with others, does not look back at the opinion of his neighbors, and does not shift responsibility for his emotional state to his partner. Such a person does not lose himself, does not dissolve in relationships, but, on the contrary, brings his dreams and plans to them. He is confident in himself and his choice. With such a person, you want to conquer new heights.
honest people they are not afraid to speak the truth, they are sincere in their judgments and honest with themselves. It is easy and pleasant to communicate with such a person, you can rely on him. An honest partner will never betray, and this is very valuable.
It is important that the other half trust you both in small things and in something global, from choosing a dessert for the holiday to telling about your experiences. Without trust, relationships will fall apart or turn into tyranny with total control of every step. Relationships should be comfortable and cozy, and trust is a very important ingredient in love.
So that romance does not pass and life does not stick, it is necessary to flirt with each other, flirt, make small surprises, have intimate conversations, cherish a spark of interest and passion. A partner who shows interest and shows that he wants to be around is very liked and appreciated.
The ability to subtly feel the mood, the ability to empathize, to see the beauty around, to enjoy the radiance of sunlight through the leaves, to cry over good fairy tale. Sensitivity makes a person alive, dear and soft. It wants to be hugged and loved.
Everyone wants to feel the support of a loved one. Feel empathy, empathy. It is important to know that your soul mate will not leave you in trouble, that she is always on your side, no matter what happens. That you are one team and will cope with everything together. This confidence inspires accomplishment.
The invariability of feelings and attitudes towards the second half, even under the onslaught of temptations. Loyalty to a partner both in body and soul. Loyalty to yourself, your views and beliefs. A person with such valuable qualities is a gift of fate.
A sense of humor helps to overcome minor problems, resolve disputes. Yes, and it's just more fun to live with him. A person with a good sense of humor and healthy self-irony has developed intellect. And it's much nicer to love it.
